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Jan 14

Gifts for a Thai Wedding

by Richard Barrow Email

Wednesday 14th January, 2009 | 279 words | Category: Questions & Answers | 1 feedback »

QUESTION: A colleague is getting married soon. At the moment, I don't think I can attend. Do I "have to" give a present? She's not a close friend. Someone told me that I should give something small, or some money, but I find it weird as I'm not planning to go.

ANSWER: Did she give you an invitation? If so, then put 500 baht or so in the same envelope (minus the invitation) and give it back to her. Your name is already on the envelope. Apologize that you are not able to make it to the wedding. If she did not give you an invitation then you are not obliged to do this. This method is more common than practical gifts for the house. In the picture above, after you have signed the guestbook at the wedding, you need to put your envelope in the box on the table. Or give it to one of the family members later.

QUESTION: What is the amount to give if one is attending a wedding event and where the groom is a close friend too?

ANSWER: That is like asking how long is a piece of string. I would say a minimum is 500 baht. For close friends and for people who have worked for me or with me and I want to support, I would give up to 3,000 baht. Some people say that is too much. But, it is really up to you. For funerals I usually give less as these are often for parents or some distant relations of people that I know.

If you have any tips for giving gifts at a Thai wedding then please post as a comment.

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